I recently experienced one of the most difficult placements since the opening of my business in 2006. Members of a family contacted me to place their elderly relative who was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s and disruptive behavior disorder. My prospect was 88, frail, ambulatory, prone to slapping other residents at the…
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Real Life Story – Avoid Over-Parenting your Parent
One of my prospective clients asked me if any of my placements had ever not worked out. I responded, “Yes, only once–early on in the years I have been conducting placements.” Here’s what happened. My client was a baby boomer whose part-time occupation required intermittent air travel during the week.…
Some High End Continuing Care Retirement Communities (CCRC) Offer Glitz But Lack Basic Care Essentials.
My client is one of a large number of siblings who were searching for a high end continuing care retirement community for their mother. Mom was in her early seventies, living independently, and driving. She owned a second home where she lived during the winter months. She could afford an…
When Discussing Senior Living Options With a Parent, Don’t Force Him or Her to Take Your Suggestions
My prospects were a 45 year old baby boomer and her mother. Her mom lived in her own home where the neighborhood wasn’t changing for the better. The mother was 78 years old, totally ambulatory, mentally alert, and had Parkinson’s disease. The daughter lived in a suburb that was a…
Staffing Is Key to the Selection of a Long-Term Care Community
I have so many fond memories of my dad and his dry but delightful sense of humor. He wasn’t athletic and once managed to pitch a hard ball through a picture window while practicing baseball with my brother. He told my mom, “Well, I never told you that you married…
Evaluating Nursing Home Quality
One of the facts that I always impress upon my prospective clients is that the aesthetics of a community do not necessarily reflect the quality of care that’s delivered by its staff. Recently, several of my clients indicated that they thought aesthetics and quality of care are directly related to…
Long Term Care Options
Here is a snapshot of the long-term care options available and their approximate costs. Not only can Andrea help you place your loved one in a facility that meets your needs, she can also evaluate your friend or loved one to determine what type of care is appropriate. Independent Living…
Real Life Story – Activities for Loved Ones with Alzheimer’s
My client had travelled to Florida to bring her parents back to Chicago to live. On the way home, my client’s elderly father suffered a heart-attack in the car and died in a hospital in Tennessee. To make matters worse, this happened over the Thanksgiving holiday. My client’s mother has…
Real Life Story – Finding Long Term Care that Offers the Medicaid Supportive Living Program
My client is 85 years old and a former resident at an independent living community that fits his very limited budget. He is ambulatory with a cane, but uses a scooter when he becomes tired. He takes medication for depression. He is fortunate to have a very devoted nephew, who…
Long Term Care – Let The Buyer Beware!
I recently had a very interesting conversation with an Admissions Director of a well-respected Chicago skilled nursing home. We made the observation that due to the poor economy, many Chicago assisted living homes* are accepting residents whose medical needs cannot be met. In other words, the resident belongs in a…