I have been working with a lot of families who are not familiar with the differences between types of services that are provided at the independent living, assisted living, and nursing home care levels. The result is that they waste a lot of time touring communities that are inappropriate for their loved one. It is even worse when a loved one is placed in a community at the wrong level because it is cheap. I have seen instances where an admissions director often convinces an uneducated family that their loved one can survive at a level of care that is inadequate for their needs. Bear in mind, there are a lot of communities with low censuses and apartment/rooms that need to be filled. The bottom line is that if the senior cannot function at a level of care that is too low for them, s/he is the one who suffers!
A Real Life Story Continued From Chicago Senior Living Advisors Blog November 18, 2012
I had written a partial Real Life Story about this incident recently. Here is part two of the story. My client is an 86 year old woman. I am her Power of Attorney For Health Care. She has severe short term memory issues, is incapable of handling her finances and medications, and as of late needs standby help with her activities of daily living. Her former Power Of Attorney For Healthcare (who resigned from the position and resides out of state) placed her at the independent level because it was cheap. Independent living means the senior can function on their own, with some help with housekeeping and meal preparation. I was assigned to the position the day before she was supposed to move. She was already objecting to the move. It was too late and she really needed to be in an environment that had some semblance of supervision. In my opinion, she really needed to be in an assisted living community with a memory care unit. Memory care units provide structured activities, 24 hour supervision, and heavy cuing plus standby assistance with activities of daily living.